Try to not want what you want to get what you want
Yes I will repeat that, try to not want what you want.
I can only best explain this in how I met my girlfriend. I remember going out to different bars and events with the intention of wanting to meet a girlfriend. Time after time I would be unsuccessful at it.
It wasn’t to when I just said one night that I’m just going to go out and have fun. I’m not even going to concern myself with meeting someone. I’m just going to relax and have a good time.
It was that very same night when I met my girlfriend.
Try to not want what you want!